KISS isn’t so stupid

As a teacher, I often find myself assuming a level of knowledge that doesn’t exist, and I’m frustrated, both with the student (“How can you not know that?”) and with myself (“Given the audience, why would you make that assumption?”). Instead of breaking down a lesson into its basic parts, I use terms and references that only someone with my years of experience would likely comprehend.

I know better; I really do. But even after six years in front of a classroom (and in numerous workshops and one-on-one situations), it still happens far more often than I’d like. I forget KISS (Keep it simple, stupid!).keep-it-simple - Todd Henry

And the funny thing is, when I’m in that assumption-rut and struggling to break out, the universe flips things around and puts me at the opposite end of things. Suddenly I’m the student – formal or otherwise – in an unfamiliar situation, totally adrift because those in the know assume I’m on their plane.

After nearly fifteen years as a struggling writer, learning the ropes (and tropes) as I go, I see this “flip” less often in the publishing world now.

  • Query vs synopsis vs pitch vs tagline?!
  • Submission guidelines – fiction/nonfiction/poetry, journal/agent/publisher?!
  • Traditional publishing vs indie vs self-pub vs hybrid?!
  • Plot arc and dialogue with or without tags and narrative and flashback and prologues?!

Insider knowledge is a relief after feeling ignorant for so long, but I still feel lost now and then.

Ah, but in my new adventure in politics, it happens All. The. Time.

  • Deadlines and endorsements and donation limits?!
  • Personal vs campaign financial reports, and ethics statements, and what qualifies as an in-kind donation?!
  • Meet-and-greet vs house party vs an “event”?!
  • Lit drop and robocall and canvassing, and where is it okay to post a campaign sign for how long?!

I’ve floundered in the campaign since day one, making it up as I go along, observing the veterans around me in hopes some of their expertise will rub off (since they’re operating on that aforementioned assumption level!). Often I don’t even know what questions to ask. It’s tough, and discouraging, and yes – still frustrating.

But in the long run, by virtue of those political lessons learned, I think it’s making me a better, more patient teacher when I’m the one in the know, classroom or otherwise. So I’ll count that as a win – on several levels.

What can we learn from each other today?

5 responses to “KISS isn’t so stupid”

  1. Ah yes, the astounding, pulverizing, sometimes thoroughly humiliating discomfort of stepping outside our comfort zone. Sadly, I think it’s a major reason so many talented, smart, wonderful people never get anywhere near their dreams. If you want to win, you gotta play. Good for you for: 1) having the courage to take that walk, and 2) using what that discomfort taught you to improve your students’ classroom experience.

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  2. I used to know someone who taught the organ and said that every time she would start a new session she’d take a class in something she’d never done before to remember what it was like to be a student. It’s so easy to slip into lingo, and so difficult to admit when we don’t understand when someone else is using it. Too often, we’re too embarrassed to ask for that help. I’m definitely in the I’ll just sit here and observe category!


    1. Interesting technique by the organ teacher. I’ll need to remember that!

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  3. This reminds me of trying to tutor in the Sinclair writing center. I ran into both problems daily.


  4. […] All of those lessons will serve me well as I move forward in my writing life, and I hope future blog posts will continue my abandoned exploration of the similarities between the publishing world and politics. […]


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